22nd April 2022
Sanctuary
Parent and toddler sessions at the United Reformed Church (URC) are proving to be a weekly highlight for families in Shiregreen.
The group was launched during the pandemic as an opportunity for social interaction and to help new parents forge friendships and share experiences.
Mum of two, Kim Wilkinson, explained: “Mondays aren’t a bad day like they used to be. I never make plans on a Monday now. It’s something I look forward to and an important part of our week.”
Sanctuary supports projects like the toddler group through its Community Investment Fund, which was set up to help develop strong communities and thriving neighbourhoods.
Mum of three, Sheridan Wasicki, attends the sessions with her 18-month-old son Ellis and three-year-old daughter Esme.
She said: “When we first went back after lockdown, Esme loved it – it’s just what she needed. I was sitting having a cup of tea, and she was just off. My son, Ellis, is absolutely wild. He’s got so much energy and is making up for lost time, for when we couldn’t get out and go to places.
The group’s organiser, Kayleigh Scallan, is quick to tap into what the children are interested in. She makes sure to have everyone’s favourite toys out and available, but also introduces them to new toys, foods and activities.
Jodie Vaughan has been going to the group with her daughter Halle-Ray, two.
She said: “My daughter loves going. She tries all of it. Kayleigh’s really helpful. She has a natural way with the children – she really understands them. She’s always got great ideas, which you can take home and do yourself.”
The mums are all impressed by how their children have grown and developed through attending the group.
Before attending, Kim’s son Ruben had delayed speech and emotional development as a result of the isolating effects of lockdown.
Kim explained: “He wasn’t used to being around other people but has come on leaps and bounds now. I’ve just started him in nursery two days a week.”
Jodie said: “Even if your kid doesn’t go off and play with another child, they’ll still sit alongside them, learning to share and get along.”.
And Sheridan added: “Esme grew up with the other kids there. It’ll be a shame when she leaves and goes to school, but she’ll be ready to make the most of it.”
For the parents, the group represents a breathing space, offering welcome and support.
“You sit down and with a cup of tea and you can see all the kids and what they’re up to,” said Kim. “We have nice chat. You compare notes. It’s been nice to see mums and dads coming together.”
Sheridan commented: “I look forward to socialising. It’s just nice to have something to look forward to, the kids for playing and me for just speaking to other mums – we give each other support.”
All agree that the baby and toddler groups are a great local resource.
“They help so many parents,” said Jodie, “And not just mums and dads, but also grandparents who are childminding. It’s an opportunity to go out without it costing a fortune.”
Kim added: “I’m lucky, because I have a car and can drive to other places, but I know a lot of people can’t. They need things that are here.
“The toddler sessions are a lifeline for parents who are local, who are lonely. I wish I’d known about this earlier with my first son.”
The toddler group sessions take place at Shiregreen URC, on Valentine Crescent, Mondays 9–11 am. To find out more call 0114 2400338 or email contact@shiregreenurc.org
